Embracing the Journey: My Path to Healing and Self-Discovery

For years, I worked my way up the corporate ladder, loving the thrill of the chase. I became an expert at turning medical and mental health services into cash like a magician, weaving my magic into that industry. But the higher I climbed, the more I felt weighed down by the rules and restraints. The more I helped people receive care, the more I realized how many roadblocks were in place, preventing folks from getting the support they needed.

I loved the challenge, but eventually, I didn’t want to follow the rules that much anymore. It started to feel like I was playing a game that wasn’t serving my soul. I finally saw that finding the care we need—whether medical, mental, or spiritual—is often in our own hands. It’s up to us to take control of our healing.

As I climbed up, I discovered my personality more deeply through the DISC test, which showed I have an “I” personality. This was eye-opening because I realized that my favorite part of my role wasn’t the corporate grind—it was coaching my team into becoming their best selves, not just for work, but for their holistic wellness. I loved sharing affirmations and watching them thrive.

A quote I have on my bathroom wall reads, “Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them become what they are capable of being.” It brings peace to my heart and mind every time I read it, reminding me of the charm and love I’ve experienced by supporting others. That’s what leadership has always meant to me: meeting people where they are and helping them grow.

Just as I coach others, I’ve learned to meet myself where I am on my journey, constantly reminding myself that we are all on our own cosmic timeline. I am called to uncover patterns in myself and others, to guide us toward becoming our favorite selves. I’m on my way right alongside you, humbly learning the hard way since 1981, and I’m so grateful to be here, experiencing life deeply and meaningfully.

As I’ve embarked on my spiritual journey, I’ve been peeling back the layers of healing. I had been working in a state of fight, flight, or freeze for so long that my nervous system was too jacked up to clearly see myself or my purpose. I spent years in my career tricking myself into thinking I was fulfilling my purpose by helping others, but it was just a job society told me I needed. I was off my path for years, but even then, I was learning, healing, and growing.

My Uranus return has brought cosmic alignment this year. I feel blessed to have been laid off from my job. The alignment with my destiny and purpose that has unfolded is huge! I’ve always been someone who lifts others up, and it brings me joy to share that light.

Healing is ongoing. Recently, I had a session where I thought I was doing well, only to uncover yet another layer ready for healing. The more work we do, the more work there is to be done. Patience and protection are vital, and I see the beauty in reaching this next stage of my journey. This Libra New Moon is helping me balance relationships, especially with myself. I’m releasing what no longer serves me, embracing new routines, and being gentle with myself as I continue on my path.

Healing is not a race. Like the old adage of the turtle and the hare, it takes time. Astrology and Human Design remind us that we are made with different gifts and experiences. We must not compare ourselves to others, especially in healing. Each of us is here to walk our own path in divine timing.

As I explore my journey, moving through the sands of time and making my own design, I can feel the changes in my heart—the shifting inner landscape—and I know cycles that never served my highest good are closing. Impatience creeps in, but I remind myself that I’m on track, and divine timing is on my side. The more I heal, the more I grow, and I’m called to share this process with others.

We are all on a journey to our highest selves. We align our souls to the highest good, raising the earth’s energy and living a life of prosperity and healing for all. I’m here for it. Let’s do this together.

If my journey resonates with you and you’re feeling called to explore your own healing path, I invite you to reflect on working together. When you’re ready to uncover the layers of your healing journey and align your energy, I would be honored to support you. Feel free to explore more and book a session at mydesignintime.com. I look forward to the possibility of walking alongside you on this transformative journey!